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An award-winning one-man play titled "Groomed" made its U.S. public premiere in the Diocese of Albany on October 20, presenting a unique opportunity for discussion about the sexual abuse of children. The play, written and performed by Patrick Sandford, reflects his own experiences with abuse by an elementary school teacher in England.
Sandford described writing the play as a release from inner turmoil and expressed hope that future performances will foster understanding and healing among victims and supporters. Following the 55-minute performance at Siena College, audience members engaged in heartfelt discussions.
The event was hosted by the Hope and Healing Committee of the Diocese of Albany as a free gathering for survivors and those seeking counseling or knowledge on child abuse. The committee organized this premiere with support from Albany Bishop Edward B. Scharfenberger.
The play explores themes like "the alchemy of anger," shame, silence, and emotional aftermaths such as mixed feelings about love. Sandford disclosed that he began speaking about his experiences only in his mid-30s and discussed them with friends much later. Now aged 72, he highlighted statistics indicating victims often delay discussing such memories for decades.
"Groomed" has earned accolades including three Outstanding Theatre Awards at Brighton Fringe and was performed at London's Soho Theatre and even at the Vatican last year. Sandford is now developing a second play focusing on the pervasive silence surrounding abuse.
Post-performance discussions touched upon statistics suggesting widespread child sexual abuse globally. Audience members called for more support groups to rebuild trust in institutions through early intervention, therapy, listening services, and preventive measures across all societal segments.
Noelle Marie, victim assistance coordinator for the Diocese of Albany, noted progress in training programs but emphasized addressing broader societal trauma issues. Another speaker mentioned the Vatican's Pontifical Commission for Protection of Minors formed under Pope Francis to take both generational and immediate steps against child sex abuse.
Sandford acknowledged that many survivors struggle with repressed memories or unwarranted shame but stressed the need for survivor input in prevention efforts. Despite challenges, audience members praised "Groomed" for its courage in breaking silence on these issues.
The U.S. premiere marked the start of a six-show tour across upstate New York and New England. Expressing gratitude to attendees who engaged thoughtfully with the play's themes, Sandford remarked how their presence warmed his heart.
William Schmitt reports for The Evangelist newspaper of the Diocese of Albany.
